The Story of Us

Happy Valentine's Day!

2012-02-14T11:16:00.001-06:00

"It's tough being single on the most romantic day of the year!"

Party Foul

2012-02-14T10:49:00.001-06:00

While running outside, Banx fell and got a "huge" scrape on her leg. She was just a tad dramatic about the whole ordeal. I got her Hello Kitty Band-Aids out to put on, and now each time you say, "Where is your Band-Aid?" She holds up her leg like so and squints her eyes like it hurts sooooooo bad, and then she proceeds to take the Band-Aid off to show you and then quickly puts it back on her leg. Can we say "DRAMA"?!?!

Deer Season in Arizona

2012-02-13T10:24:00.004-06:00

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We have already made a few friends while in Arizona.

Bambi and her crew grace us with their presence about the same time each day in the "front yard" here at the house.
These deer are smaller than the ones we see in Iowa; however, their ears are huge!

We Made It!

2012-02-12T21:18:00.000-06:00

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"We're here, bi#$*es!"
(For those of you who know Austin, you will totally get that quote! Sorry if it offends any of you. As always, just keeping it real!)
Well, we made it to Arizona safe and sound. Banx did amazingly well on the plane. Getting on the plane; however, was in true Blackwell/Griswold fashion.

We started off with Austin being overweight with his bag. I was not going to pay $50 for the four extra pounds, so we had to quick do some shuffling in line, while keeping tabs on Banx (thank goodness for the backpack harness--yes, the harnesses I have always made fun of--DON'T JUDGE!). Next challenge: going through airport security. Austin somehow thought his mom had our tickets. After waiting in a short line (luckily!) and being up next, he realized he didn't have our tickets (or so he thought), so we had to quick run back downstairs to the ticket counter and have new ones printed. After getting checked in (AGAIN) and disassembling ourselves to go through security, he found the original tickets in his back pocket. Thank goodness we had Papa and Gigi with us to take care of Banx during this fiasco!

By this point, Banx is due for a nap, and all she wants is to sleep IN A CRIB, not a car seat. Sorry, Sweetheart. Not an option.

After getting her all loaded on the plane and settled, we were able to keep her entertained for the first hour-and-a-half, but then she started to get cranky. I took her out of her car seat to check her diaper and realized she had soaked through her diaper, her clothes and her car seat.

So now we have a semi-naked baby on the plane. Great.

Paper towels, please!

I decided to just quick change her on my lap, and then I quickly realized that I got the remnants of her soaked clothes on my clothes. Double great.

Once she was half-naked, she was able to quickly go to sleep the rest of the flight (and so did Mommy!).

Once we landed, we let everyone get off first, as we didn't want to hold anyone up while we took out the car seat in the very limited space. Banx decided she wanted to stand up in the seat by the flight attendants and tell everyone "hi" as they walked by us. Maybe we have a future flight attendant on our hands??

I'm glad I had that to make me smile, because I had a sad moment after we landed. Historically, whenever we traveled, Grandma always asked that I call her ASAP to let her know we landed safely. When I went to turn my cell phone back on, it was almost an immediate reaction to dial her number. Even though it's been almost a year, habits die hard.

Arizona is beautiful, and so far, it's been great to just relax!

The above image is a picture of our view last night, overlooking the pool.

Beautiful!

Ready for Takeoff!

2012-02-12T20:49:00.005-06:00

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Think she's all ready for takeoff?

Neck pillow--check
Headphones--check
Danno--check
Bink-Bink--check
Beating Mommy out of the window seat--check and check

Arizona Vacation-Phase 1

2012-02-11T07:07:00.001-06:00

We were able to get to Omaha in time last night for Banx to get a chance to play with Harlow at the hotel. These girls are hilarious together!
Here they are reading a book with "Aunt Manta."

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One-Year Pictures

2012-02-10T13:55:00.001-06:00

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Banx's one-year pictures are up!

If you are interested in looking at them, go to:

www.amydoerring.com

Click "Client Proofing" and then the password is "banx".

FYI, her hair really isn't that pink/red/orange/yellow! Haha.

Commit to be Fit!

2012-02-07T20:13:00.000-06:00

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Tim and Kim have been working hard at getting the workout room finished downstairs, and Banx occasionally likes to be a "big helper." While organizing the room a bit, the workout weights were found.
Austin thought it would be a great idea to put the five-pound leg weights on Banx to build some muscle...and slow her down a little bit (she's very busy and very fast!). Surprisingly, she didn't mind the leg weights a bit, and, in fact, she threw a bit of a fuss when I took them off of her after she had been wearing them for some time.

Apparently, she is already concerned with getting in shape.

As Cher would say,

"Fitness - if it came in a bottle, everybody would have a great body."

Moore Acts of Kindness Day

2012-02-07T19:49:00.000-06:00

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Today while I was at work, I received a text message from my mom with a picture of this pie. The text message read:

"Here is my Nicholas Moore acts of kindness 4 his day."

For those of you who are are unaware of Moore Acts of Kindness Day, today is a day to honor Nicholas Moore, his birthday, by doing random acts of kindness for others.

This pie that Mom made is one of my favorites, and she usually only makes them on Valentine's Day. I was kind of bummed that I would miss out on this pie, since we will be in Arizona for Valentine's Day, so this was the act of kindness that was blessed upon me today.

As human beings, we are charged to do the right thing and to treat others kindly. Hopefully Moore Acts of Kindness Day reaches many, many people. Nicholas set a fabulous example for us all!

For more information on Moore Acts of Kindness Day, here are a few links:
Moore Acts of Kindness Day (Facebook)

CaringBridge-Nicholas Scott Moore

DJ Bankie Banx

2012-02-06T19:59:00.001-06:00

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In anticipation of a three-hour plane ride with Banx this coming weekend, we are trying to prepare ourselves with anything that will keep her occupied. She loves the iPod, iPad, iPhone (basically anything Apple), and since we decided the entire plane of passengers probably wouldn't appreciate the sound of her flash cards and songs like "The Wheels on the Bus," we knew we had better get her some sort of headphones. She hated the Earbuds, so we decided to try the full-coverage headphones for children.
SHE LOVES THEM!

It probably also helps that they are pink and have Hello Kitty on them (a/k/a "Hi, Titty," as Banx tries to copy when you say, "Hello Kitty").

Please pray that we have a safe trip and for Mommy to have extra patience on the plane! This is not only Banx's first time on a plane, this is also Mommy's first time with a toddler on a plane. I'm so worried she's going to be one of "those toddlers" that passengers call home about at the end of their flight.

"Laces Out, Dan!"

2012-02-05T15:41:00.001-06:00

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She's all ready for the big game!

(If you look closely at her top teeth, you will now realize why we call her "Baby Gap." I just love those little chompers!)

On a Cold Winter Night...

2012-02-04T20:21:00.002-06:00

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Brew me a cup for a winter's night.
For the wind howls loud and the furies fight;
Spice it with love and stir it with care,
And I'll toast our bright eyes,
my sweetheart fair.
~Minna Thomas Antrim

I'm not thrilled with the cold weather; however, I am enjoying this view from our bedroom window this evening.

Sugar Sweet

2012-02-04T20:08:00.000-06:00

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Saturday mornings with Daddy equal Jaarsma frosting on the lips!

Danno's Engaged!

2012-02-04T08:48:00.001-06:00

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After a few scares with Danno going missing while we travel, run errands, etc., we thought we better get a "backup Danno." (This monkey is very curious and likes to "jump" out of the shopping cart occasionally.) Instead of calling this new one "Backup Danno," Banx and I decided this new one is a girl, and her name is Dina. (Okay, okay, so Mommy decided that, but I figured since Austin got to name Danno AND pick his gender, I could do that with Miss Dina.)

Pretty in Pink Times Two

2012-02-02T19:12:00.003-06:00

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As I alluded to in a previous blog post, Mary Catherine and William gave Banx an adorable peasant dress today with a matching bow AND a matching outfit for Baby Stella. ISN'T IT SOOOO ADORABLE?!?!?

Thank you, Mary Catherine and William!

Banx loves it so much that we just put her to bed, and she somewhat insisted, in her own toddler way, that she wear that outfit to bed. I think it is just that comfy for her! (I didn't fight her on wearing the dress to bed, as she is fighting a nasty skin infection due to an issue with disposable diapers, and she is terribly uncomfortable. I'm game with whatever helps and takes her mind off the pain! Reason #12 to stick with the cloth diapers!)

Her and Baby Stella are sound asleep now, and extremely fashionable, if I do say so!

Mary Catherine's friend, Heather, actually made this dress set (coincidentally, I went to grade school with Heather...small world!), and I have just discovered (thanks to Mary Catherine) that Heather has an Etsy shop. And for those of you that know me, Etsy is my one-stop shop for gifts, accessories, clothing, etc., so I am so excited to check out Heather's on-line store.

Here is the link to her shop on Etsy:

Aunt Colors-Etsy

Reality Check

2012-02-02T18:44:00.003-06:00

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I had dressed Banx up today for some pictures for family members' Valentine's Day cards I am working on. I decided it would be easier just to lay out the one outfit today for her to wear for pictures and for all our running around...Storytime, errands, etc.

So I was in Walmart with Banx in the cart, with her wearing this outfit and a coat, when a complete stranger comes up and is going on and on how cute Banx's outfit is. She then asks me, "Oh, did she just come from a dance recital?" I said, "No, I just took a few pictures of her today is all." This strange women then says to me, "Oh, you must be one of those Toddler & Tiaras' moms." OMG! Have I really gotten that bad?!?

I immediately called my sister-in-law (who secretly watches the show, "Toddlers & Tiaras," as I do...Oh, no, Samantha! Our secret is out now! Sorry. Wink wink), and I explained what just happened and then asked if I should be offended. She immediately replies, "Um, yes. Yes, you should definitely be offended!"

I think I'm just having way too much fun with this little girl and all the fun clothes and accessories that are just screaming for me to try on Banx!

I'll try and seek help immediately.

But first...I need to go try another outfit on Banx, with the matching hat, of course, as I lay her clothes out to pack for Arizona. ;-)

Library Storytime

2012-02-02T13:20:00.000-06:00

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I had set aside today as "Mommy & Banx Day." I was trying to find something special to do with Banx, and I found out that our public library has Storytime for children 0-3 years of age on Thursday mornings and evenings. I invited our friends Mary Catherine and William to join us, and we were lucky enough to have them there, too.

I was a little concerned with how Banx would do at Storytime; however, for the most part, she did great, and she really enjoyed it. Mrs. Fox does a fabulous job interacting with the kids. I was thoroughly impressed with this service our public library provides. They even had a craft for the kids to work on, as well as a snack.

In this picture above, Banx and William are enjoying their snack, while playing with their finished craft project. The craft went along with the book, "Groundhog," that Mrs. Fox had previously read to the children.

(If you're wondering why Banx and William are by themselves at the end of the table, that was my doing. I was worried that Banx was not going to cooperate with the craft and that the older kids would be completely annoyed with her {I just wanted to be sure we would be welcome back! Haha}; however, as usual, I didn't give her enough credit. She really enjoyed working on her project...and eating her cookie, of course!)

After Storytime we took William and Banx to Smokey Row for some lunch. The loft at Smokey Row makes for a great place for the kids to play after they are finished eating...providing no one is up there trying to work!

I LOVE THIS PICTURE!

I feel like this picture deserves a storyline to go with it. Here goes:

William: I see my shadow. Do you see yours?

Banx: Yep, right there it is.

William: You know what that means; right?

Banx: Six more weeks of winter ahead!

William: Yeah, but with winter this nice so far, I could take another six weeks of it.

Banx: I'm just ready to break in my spring wardrobe!
* * * * * * * *

I'm just positive this was the conversation these two had as they looked out the window.

:-)

These two toddlers play very well together (that is, when Banx is not trying to snatch his food or trucks!), and they especially love finding a little mischief to get in together, as well.

For some reason (probably because both mommies said, "NO!"), they loved climbing on this ledge to look out the window.

What a fabulous morning and noon hour! Thank you, Mary Catherine and William!

And THANK YOU for the adorable outfit for Banx. Can't wait to put it on her! (Anticipate a picture or two!)

There's a Spring in My Step

2012-01-31T19:12:00.000-06:00

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Ahhh, I'm finally feeling myself again! (And, apparently, I was kind enough to share my nasty flu bug with my husband. Remember, Austin, sharing is caring!) ;-)

I decided I would take advantage of the beautiful weather and surprise Banx at daycare with her Tricyroo for the ride/walk home. She was so excited when she saw her "wheels" when we walked out the front door of Miss Mary's. She loved the trip home, but decided about halfway home that she was a big girl and wanted to walk beside Mommy. She walked a whole block and did amazingly well staying by my side! She also got to see the school bus drop off children (a/k/a "babies," as she calls all children under ten), and she was very interested in watching all the "babies" scatter all different directions after they got off the "tractor," as she called the school bus.

New Weight-Loss Solution?

2012-01-30T12:30:00.000-06:00

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As I have been working hard at losing the remainder of my "baby weight" (yes, I know it's been over 14 months since I had Banx, but you try gaining 69 pounds and losing it that fast! Haha), I have come to the realization over this past weekend that all I really needed was a terrible case of the stomach flu.

I have been confined to the upstairs, with the rest of the family downstairs. You know you must look "that bad" when they all look at you and run. I am finally at least feeling well enough today to work on my computer (from bed) and have even managed to take a shower.

I jumped on the scale this morning to see what the weight effects were from the flu. I have to admit that the eight-pound weight loss was welcome; however, not in this manner!

So, for those of you looking for a new weight-loss program, just come and scoop up some of my nasty germs.

This is how vivid my dreams are...when I awoke the other morning feeling achy and sick to my stomach, I thought it was just the remnants from my dream about the movie we watched the night prior, "Contagion." It's a new release out on DVD about a nasty flu virus that takes over the world. As always, when I watch a movie, I then dream about it. I simply thought I was still dreaming when I awoke and could hardly move.

Nope, that FOR SURE wasn't a dream!

It turns out that some of my family members are on this same weight-loss regimen, as my sister and her husband are on this same diet plan with me. Feel the burn!

White Babies Can't Jump

2012-01-28T20:31:00.001-06:00

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As previously promised, here is a video of Banx "jumping."

The anticipation almost kills you, as you have to watch her chase poor Zoe first. :-)

She thinks she is such big stuff, so we have to make a big deal about it.

Austin was comparing her to the basketball players in the movie "White Men Can't Jump" (hence the title of this blog) when he first saw her "jump" and asked, "Does she get her feet off the ground at all?" Silly Daddy, of course not!

Pizza Party

2012-01-27T20:20:00.000-06:00

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Tonight we had a pizza party at Maple Ridge with Grandma Shirley as a reward for getting second place in the Christmas door decorating contest. (I'm still having issues with receiving second place, as opposed to first place. We'll have to up the ante for next year!)
As always, Banx was the entertainment for these wonderful women. She had to show them her new trick...her "jump." I'll try to capture that on video soon, so I can share with you all.
Banx took a special liking to one of the residents, Lavern. She kept going up to hug Lavern. It was so sweet to see.

In addition to learning how to "jump" today at Nana's, Banx also got her first shower and her first French braid. Apparently, the shower wasn't well-received.

Maybe, Just Maybe...

2012-01-25T14:06:00.001-06:00

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One of my friends, who is baffled at how court reporters can capture every word, sent me this photo and asked if that's how we do it...by threatening violence. Hmmmm, no, but that is a good idea! :-)

How Much Wood Would a Woodchuck Chuck?

2012-01-24T16:50:00.000-06:00

We have discovered we have a woodchuck that must hide in Banx's closet and only comes out when she's asleep. If you will notice her crib, you will notice how "something" has been chewing on the front rail.
I noticed it for the first time last evening and immediately blamed our kitty, Charlie. Austin then pointed out that it had to be Banx. I aggressively defended Banx, and then I was somewhat upset with Austin for taking his cat's side over his daughter's side. Then he pointed out the big gap marks where Baby Gap's front teeth would be. Oh, crap...Austin is right AND I had to apologize to him (and the cat). Those are two things very hard for a wife to do (admit her husband is wrong AND have to apologize, all in the same sentence!).

I was able to confirm Austin's correctness today after Banx's nap. I walked in and saw it for myself!

She quickly stopped and sat down. Doesn't she look so innocent? Looks can be very deceiving!

Progress

2012-01-22T19:14:00.000-06:00

We are seeing some progress with Banx at Children's Moment. Hopefully each time it gets a little better!

Words to Live By

2012-01-22T08:41:00.000-06:00

I saw this on Pinterest, and I love this!

Lookin' Fly

2012-01-21T21:51:00.002-06:00

"Thanks for my new sunglasses, Mom!"

I found these today on a clearance rack for Banx, and I couldn't resist buying them. Miss Thang loves anything that screams "DIVA!" so she was ecstatic with these sunglasses. In fact, we experienced a slight fit by her when I took them away at bedtime.

Hopefully she doesn't remember them in the morning. I'm hoping I can save them for our trip to Arizona next month.

FCC-OMG Shopping Day

2012-01-21T21:45:00.000-06:00

January 21, 2012
Our new moms' group at church, FCC-OMG (First Christian Church-Oskaloosa Moms' Group) had our first official outing today. We headed for the Williamsburg outlet mall in search of after-Christmas sales. I think it's safe to say that we scored! Good thing we had the big church van to haul our discounted goods home!

After an embarrassing incident in the dressing room at the Jockey store, Paige and I were having some issues regarding our weight (at least we were able to have a GOOD laugh about the incident). We decided to try a few techniques to make ourselves look slimmer. The above picture is as close as we got to a decent picture while testing out these techniques.
Attractive picture, huh?! ;-)

As far as what the embarrassing incident was, I won't go into detail, but it involved slimming shorts on two gals, post-pregnancy. Those sizes HAD to have been a misprint. The whole sight wasn't pretty!

Back to the discounts...I was able to stuff two of the large sacks at Old Navy to the very top (they were so heavy that they ended up ripping), and I only paid $26 for the entire purchase! This purchase included three blazers, five sweaters, one dress, one turtleneck, two belts and one harmonica for Banx as a "surprise." These items were already marked as clearance items and were an additional 50 percent off, plus another 20 percent off with a Tanger coupon I had, followed by two more coupons I had gotten from the Internet. This was my most exciting purchase of the day!

Children's Place was also having some amazing $2.99 deals, so I was able to stock up on clothes for Banx next year and still use a coupon from the Internet! My biggest frustration of the day was Gymboree. I only buy clothes there for Banx when they are super-dooper on sale, but I knew they were having a big sale so I marked it on my list last night as I was planning my shopping agenda. I wanted to be sure I didn't miss any deals, so I compared the Tanger stores list with coupons I had, then I went online to look for more coupons.

(I truly appreciate these days now that I have a child. I no longer take it for granted when I get a day to hit all the stores I want to hit, look as long as I need to and really dig through the clearance bins and racks, and not have to worry about Banx getting tired, hungry or needing changed. Thank you, Gigi, for watching Banx for me today!)

I got some coupons online and I had Gymboree bucks to use, so I had figured out I could get a certain number of outfits for Banx for next fall/winter and spend less than $15 on my entire purchase. I had the outfits all picked out, when I realized they do not honor the coupons I had and they do not redeem the Gymboree bucks at the outlet store. Grrr. I put all the outfits back on the rack, and we walked out of the store. (Of course, we couldn't escape that shop or any of the other shops without setting off the store alarms, due to something on Paige's person...Good job, Paige! Haha)

I was almost too exhausted to go today, but I'm so glad that I did. I had a great time, and I am so proud of all of the deals I snagged.

I had a nightmare of a deposition yesterday...six hours of listening to testimony in an asbestos mesothelioma case with a witness who whispered and mumbled and talked so fast, that at one point I looked at my "words per minute counter," and it was registering the testimony at 305 words per minute. In case you're wondering, YES, my hands were killing me and I had a headache from you-know-where by the time the depo was over, then I go out to my car and see the sleet and snow. TGIF!

G-G's Tap

2012-01-21T21:11:00.000-06:00

January 20, 2012
Austin and his dad made a quick trip to Wisconsin to pick up some exercise equipment for our local YMCA. They came across this bar sign for G-G's Tap on the way home. Austin sent this picture to me, and we all got a laugh out of it. Banx refers to Kim as "Gigi," so this is officially Kim's new sign.

Quick as a Wink

2012-01-18T21:27:00.000-06:00

Banx's latest "thing" is winking, and she's as graceful at it as her mommy is. :-)

"I'll Take That One!"

2012-01-18T15:10:00.001-06:00

January 14, 2012
I had the ICRA Midyear Seminar in Des Moines over the weekend, so that left Banx and Daddy "roughing it" by themselves. At least I knew Daddy was keeping Banx on her Saturday schedule, when I received this picture of Banx at Jaarsma Bakery Saturday morning.
This girl loves her doughnut holes!

Sorry I've been a little delinquent with blogging. Our household (including Banx) was hit with the flu. All I can say about a one-year-old with the flu is YUCK!

Stairmaster in Training

2012-01-10T21:46:00.000-06:00

Banx and I took advantage of the gorgeous weather today and played a little outside. I told her it was recess, since we were sticking to the "school" theme. :-)

Banx was so fascinated with being outside. It was as if she had never been out there before.
I quickly determined what her greatest fascination was with the outdoors...the less-than-2-inch step from the front door entrance onto the driveway.

She thought she was SUCH big stuff when she finally figured out this one little step. You know what they say, "One big step for man..." ;-)

This activity kept her entertained for literally twenty minutes; back and forth, back and forth.

By the way, you will also notice in this video her latest walk, which has come to be referred to as the "I'm feeling richer effect" walk by family and friends. I gave her one of my old cell phones to play with, in hopes she would no longer go after my good cell phone (no such luck), and since she's gotten that play phone, it's like she is acting out the new Straight Talk cell phone commercials. She holds her arms bent up with her wrists pointed down, just flailing around like a little snob. All we need to do is teach her to do "pinkies out," and she'll be ready for tea with the Queen. Haha. JUST KIDDING! For those of you who know Miss Banx, you know that she's not exactly what we would classify as "dignified" with her actions...you know what I'm talking about (especially after her escapade this afternoon where she was busted playing with something
EXTRA nasty)!

"Where's Daddy?"

2012-01-10T21:19:00.000-06:00

Banx loves it when I say at the end of the day, "Where's Daddy?"

She knows that means that Daddy is either close to coming down the road or that he is already in the driveway. She now runs to the door and looks out the side windows when she hears me asking that ever-important question in her world. She gets so excited when she sees him in the driveway! Since the weather has been so nice, I've been cracking the door for her so she can open it and run out and meet her daddy!

It's School Time!

2012-01-10T13:15:00.000-06:00

My family jokes with me when they call during the day and ask what Banx is doing and I reply, "She's at school." Since she was about four months old, we have developed a consistent schedule for Banx each day when I'm able to stay home with her.
Anytime we do anything educational with her, we call it "school." :-)
I found a free online curriculum for toddlers a few months ago to start the first of the year. She officially moved to the next level of "school" this week. It's pretty simple and basic, but it keeps her on her routine and introduces new techniques. So far, it's kept her entertained throughout the day, but we are only on Day 2, so I'll keep my fingers crossed that we can make it through the entire series.

If you are interested in checking it out, it can be found here:

Toddler Curriculum at Home

Need Sleep?

2012-01-09T15:50:00.000-06:00

January 9, 2012

You know Banx has been playing hard all morning when you walk in the living room and see this:

I knew it was getting close to nap time, but, apparently, Banx decided she couldn't wait any longer.

Saturday Mornings with Daddy

2012-01-07T11:30:00.000-06:00

Austin and Banx have a special tradition that has come to be known as "Saturday Mornings with Daddy."

Since I utilize Saturdays to "get lots done" (as Grandma Peggy would always say) by working on transcripts, cleaning, laundry, etc., Austin takes full advantage of that by spending time with Banx.

He gets her up, feeds her breakfast, picks out her outfit (even a bow!), gets her dressed, and then takes her to Jaarsma to get her a special treat before taking her to the office for a little while.

I love that they have this special tradition,

even if "Mommy is not allowed!" :-)

Banx's Passion for Books

2012-01-03T21:07:00.001-06:00

Banx loves, loves, LOVES books, which makes me soooooo happy! I really hope her love of reading continues on throughout her life, as Austin and I are both avid readers. We have a routine every night, where we read at least one book before bedtime. Lately, she has also wanted a story before nap time, and I don't mind that a bit! However, she has recently developed a more independent attitude where she wants to "read" the book herself. In fact, she has started carrying at least one book around everywhere she goes (even out of the house). Her favorite books seem to be from the Berenstain Bear collection. She had one of the BB books from Halloween and is always drawn to that specific collection in doctor offices, the church nursery, waiting rooms, etc. I started looking for some of the books online. I was lucky enough to get a lot of used BB books on eBay for a steal. They came in the mail today, and she was so excited when she saw the pile! She dug right in and started "reading." We were able to capture her obsession with books and how she "reads" the books to herself. Turn up the speakers!

Praying Proverbs 31

2012-01-03T17:17:00.003-06:00

Again, *thank you* to my friend, Jennifer, for sending out the information for this!

Jennifer recently sent out links for different devotional downloads. One was the Prayers for Our Husbands, which is what I made into little books as Christmas gifts. Another great link was to the site where you can get the Prayers for Our Daughters. This is a devotional series based on Proverbs 31 (my favorite chapter of the Bible).

If you are interested, you can click on this link:

31 Days of Praying Proverbs 31

You can then download the book and either print it or have it directly downloaded to your Kindle. It is regularly $4.99; however, for this week only, you can save $3.00. If you ask me, this is a terrific devotional series!

Since it is obvious that Jennifer has terrific ideas, I would encourage you to check out her blog:

Van Zante Four = Fun

She is a terrific role model, and her blog site is one of my favorites to go to for inspiration in many different areas of life!

2011 Newsletter-A Review of Our Year

2012-01-03T15:49:00.002-06:00

In order to view our 2011 Newsletter, please click on the following link and click the "Download Original" tab in the top right-hand corner of the link it takes you to:

2011 Blackwell Family Newsletter

"'Twas the Day After Christmas"

2012-01-01T20:21:00.002-06:00

This morning at church, our pastor read the following poem to start off his sermon:

'Twas the day after Christmas, when all through the place
There were arguments and depression --- Even Mom had a long face.

The stockings hung empty, and the house was a mess;
The new clothes didn’t fit, and Dad was all stressed.

The family was irritable, and the children—no one could please,
Because the instructions for the swing set were written in Chinese!

The bells no longer jingled, and no carolers came around;
The sink was stacked with dishes, and the tree was turning brown.

The stores were full of people, returning things that fizzled and failed,
And the shoppers were discouraged, because everything they’d bought was now on the half-price sale!

‘Twas the day after Christmas — The spirit of joy had disappeared;
The only hope on the horizon was 12 bowl games the first day of the New Year!

Austin and I looked at each other and laughed. This poem fit our household to perfection this holiday season, down to {almost} every last line. We created wonderful lasting memories; however, 14 people staying in the same household can get just a tad chaotic at times. Luckily for us, my in-laws remain extremely generous of their home and sharing it with us all! We joke about the chaos, but we sincerely appreciate their generosity!

First Children's Moment at Church

2012-01-01T20:13:00.000-06:00

January 1, 2012
This morning we tried our first attempt at having Banx go forward during church for Children's Moment. We started off good:

And here is how it ended:

Can you guess who the ringleader was??

Happy 2012!

2012-01-01T20:01:00.000-06:00

December 31, 2011
Austin, Banx and I decided to have a "family day" and go to Des Moines. We had a great day shopping and running "Mommy errands," as Daddy calls them. Banx thought she was big stuff as many people stopped to compliment her on her pink Tricycoo she was riding in.

After we were all finished in Des Moines, we came home to celebrate New Year's Eve. Our New Year's Eve celebration this year consisted of dressing Harlow and Banx up in their props and posing them for pictures.

Once the girls were asleep for the night, we relaxed, played some pool and had our own version of "Show & Tell" with all the bargains I found in Des Moines.

This year has been full of joy and sorrow; full of change; full of memories, good and bad.

Austin, my father-in-law and I have a tradition of writing down our resolutions for the year, sealing them with $25 inside. We then open them a year later, and whoever has achieved their resolutions gets to keep all the money. Just a little incentive to work hard for our goals. Historically, my goals have been work-related or health-related. I hope to make my list more "deep" this year by focusing on the type of wife and mother I want to be. I want to learn from my mistakes of 2011 and make 2012 the best year yet!

I was looking for some inspiration as I was thinking about what my list would include for 2012, and I came across this scripture:

Philippians 3:13-14
No, dear brothers and sisters, I am still not all I should be, but I am focusing all my energies on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I strain to reach the end of the race and receive the prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us up to heaven.

May 2012 bless you and your family with health, happiness, joy and contentment.

Lots of Love,
Austin, Brook & Banx

Partners in Crime

2012-01-01T19:11:00.000-06:00

These are two of the most ornery little one-year-old girls you will ever meet. What one doesn't think of, the other one does! For the most part, they are very good girls, but when they get that same look in their eyes with that crooked little grin, you had better watch out! Surprisingly, they both did great with all of Gigi's decorations; however, they are both the same, in that when they get extremely tired, they let you know by going around and gently touching things they know they aren't supposed to, while looking at you as if to say, "You're ignoring that I'm tired, so maybe this will get your attention!"

They had a blast sharing their Christmas toys, and Banx was so excited to get to "sneak" a sip of Harlow's bottles here and there.

They also taught each other special tricks; Banx taught Harlow how to get up and stand in the rocking chair, and Harlow taught Banx how to climb up the little slide set.
I, on the other hand, was thrilled just to hear Harlow start saying my name! It goes something along the lines of B-------------ROOK!
Papa was quick to show the girls the proper way to go down a slide. For some reason, that wasn't near as much fun as going down either head first or backwards on their tummies.

A New Year's Eve Birthday

2012-01-01T18:06:00.000-06:00

December 30, 2011
Since our niece Harlow's birthday is on New Year's Eve and Samantha had to be in a wedding that night, Harlow's big party was a night early. Our niece has the funniest personality! She loves to dance, listen to music, and wear funny glasses. Yes, I said "wear funny glasses." Here she is all dressed up in a darling birthday outfit, complete with an old pair of glasses she refused to give up, along with her daddy's Dr. Dre Beats headphones:

Harlow had a fabulous princess-themed party, and I think it's safe to say that her favorite part of the event was her cake.

Happy First Birthday, Harlow!

We love you very much!

XOXO, Uncle Austin, Aunt Brook & Banx

Christmas-Days Four Through Eight

2012-01-01T17:50:00.000-06:00

December 26-30, 2011

Some of Austin's family from Wichita came for a Christmas visit. We always enjoy the time we get to spend with them, and there is never a dull moment (thanks mostly to Aunt Susie).
Banx was so excited to see her Great-Granny. It was precious to watch!
It was great to see you, Granny, Mike, Kevin, Susie and Olivia! Can't wait to see you again in March!

December 30th officially marked the end of our Christmas celebrations this year. Even though it was a hectic and busy holiday season, the hustle and bustle reminds us how lucky we are to have so many loved ones in our life.
We love you all!

Christmas-Day Three

2011-12-27T11:33:00.000-06:00

December 25, 2011
Merry Christmas!

We started off Christmas morning by waking Banx and Harlow up extra early to see what Santa brought them. Here they are showing off their matching chairs:

After a power nap for both girls while the rest of us ate a delicious breakfast, we got ready and headed on out to Maple Ridge to celebrate Christmas with Grandma Shirley.

We feel very fortunate to have lucked out with this photo! Both girls were behaving themselves (except for Harlow trying to pull Banx's hair bow out in this photo, but that was actually funny), despite hitting a wall of exhaustion. The girls did a great job entertaining everyone with their hilarious personalities.

After lunch with Grandma Shirley, we headed home so Banx could take another nap before our next celebration.

Once Banx woke up, we stopped by Grandma Betty's to quick say "hi" to everyone before heading out to eat dinner and open gifts with Mom, Dennis, Joe, Paige and Beau.
Here is a picture of Banx and Nana with one of Banx's gifts, an apron. It is so cute!
Banx also was enamored with her personalized CD, which plays songs with her name. Mom wasn't able to find one with Banx's name, so they had to have it made. Weird they didn't have the name "Banx," huh?! ;-)

After Banx opened her final gift, Daddy realized it was his first official Christmas of having a toddler...he needed to put together a toy!

After two hours of hard work, he finally was able to get the trampoline together. Austin has more patience than any man I know! He never once complained (however he did require a few adult beverages to help keep calm). Nana and Dennis, you may want to consult with Austin before you buy Banx another toy like that! Just kidding! :-)

She LOVES it and fully appreciates all her Daddy's hard work on it, I'm sure!

Once playtime was over with the new toy, we decided to pack up and head home so Banx could go to bed. As I was cleaning up, I made my way over to where Banx had been eating popcorn (her new favorite treat at Nana and Dennis's, thanks to Nana's gift from Dennis, a popcorn machine), and this is what I discovered:

Apparently, Banx thought this was like the baby version of the Peanut Pub in Osky, where you throw your shells on the ground as you eat them. Due to this discovery, Nana's house is now known as "The Baby Pub."

We are still celebrating Christmas, as Austin's family from Wichita came into town last night. I will continue to post updates on our Christmas celebration with the Blackwell clan.
It's beginning to feel like Hanukkah with all these days of celebrating. We may even make it to the full eight days and nights. :-)

We feel so blessed to be surrounded by loved ones and the generosity they all show to us; however, our best gift remains the greatest gift of all, the birth of our Savior.

True Christian Christmas Christmas isn't showy gifts
Or glittering decoration;
It's honoring our Savior, Jesus Christ
In humble adoration. It's serving those less fortunate,
Meeting their needs before our own;
It's making sure at Christmas time
That no one is alone. It's taking what we would have spent
On things that no one needs,
And using it to help someone
With service and good deeds. Our Savior showed us how to live
With charity, faith and service.
It makes the holidays a joy,
More peaceful, and less nervous. So let's remember Christmas is
About our Savior's birth;
That's the way to happiness,
The way to peace on earth. By Joanna Fuchs

Christmas-Day Two

2011-12-26T22:50:00.000-06:00

December 24, 2011
We celebrated Christmas Eve at my Dad's for the afternoon with Dad, Shari, Paige, Joe, Beau, Austin, Banx, Dan, Dan's girlfriend, Tim and me (and a partridge in a pear tree :->).
Dad and Shari got Banx a pink baby-baby grand piano, and she fell in love immediately. In fact, she spotted it around the corner before it was officially "gift time." She knew exactly what to do with it; she sat down and began tickling the ivories like a pro.

My mother-in-law pointed out that Banx could just very well be the female version of Liberace, especially with her outrageous wardrobe. :-)

"Dad, seriously, knock off the candid photos! And Mom, did you really have to add this nose to make me look like Rudolph?!" (Sorry, I just couldn't help myself with this photo! Haha)

In addition to the piano, Banx also took a liking to Beau's gift, a stuffed animal that looks like a show cow.
Here she is trying to feed the cow a cracker as she is going, "Mmmmmm," which is what she does now when you say, "What's a cow say?"
After Christmas at Dad and Shari's, we headed back home to start the new tradition of opening our Christmas Eve gift from Papa and Gigi (Christmas Eve pajamas, which turned into Christmas night pajamas...long story), and then Papa read "'Twas the Night Before Christmas" to the babies before they headed off to bed.

Once 10:30 rolled around, Austin and I got ready and headed to church for the 11:00 candlelight service. It is always such a touching way to end Christmas Eve and prepare our hearts for Christmas day, as we remember the true meaning of Christmas.

I can't believe it was just a year ago that Banx was the "Baby Jesus" at the candlelight service. She was so tiny (and sat so still back then, too!).

Christmas-Day One

2011-12-26T18:20:00.000-06:00

December 23, 2011
For those of you who know us, you know that we have a LOT of family obligations around the holidays. This year ran much more smoothly than years past, as the celebrations were spread out over a period of days, rather than hours. We were able to fully enjoy each stop, as opposed to eating and running...literally (well, not "literally;" we would drive, not run. Haha).
Anyway, we started the festivities on December 23rd for the Converse side at my mom's house.
Our first Christmas without Grandma. {Sigh.}
You could tell we all felt like something was missing this year, so we decided to go around the room and each tell our favorite "one-liner" of Grandma's. And as many of you know, Grandma was well-known for her one-liners!

This year I realized was a Christmas of many "firsts" for us.
Our first Christmas not in our house;

Our first Christmas without Grandma;

Our first Christmas with a niece AND a nephew;
Our first Christmas to really appreciate traditions (old and new) with Banx.
I guess this is what "The Circle of Life" means. We don't have Grandma with us physically anymore, but we have new life to pass on all that she gave us, whether it's her strong character, her humor, her kindness, or, yes, even her one-liners!
I have often wondered these past few months what God's plan was when our house sold quicker than we anticipated, which left us in a situation without a home of our own for the holidays; however, now that Christmas is over, I truly believe His plan was for us to be surrounded by family NON-STOP around my first Christmas holiday season without Grandma.

Every afternoon/night has been spent enjoying watching Banx play with her cousin, Harlow, and every morning has been spent watching them sit on their Papa's lap together. Seeing the innocent joy in two toddlers' faces has most definitely helped me overcome the extreme sadness I think I would have felt, had we still been in our house together. So, yes, this is more confirmation for me that God really does know what He's doing, even when I'm not quite sure why things happen the way they do in life.

Mom came and got me towards the end of the evening at the Converse Christmas and told me to get to the basement right away. I thought something happened to Banx. I quick ran downstairs, and this is what I saw:

This visual took my breath away.
For those of you who never knew Grandma, I will fill you in on one of her favorite traditions at family gatherings...playing cards with the guys! She would oftentimes be the only girl at the table. Another favorite of hers was eating popcorn.
Well, here is Banx "playing cards" with the guys while eating popcorn.
I know you have heard me joking or read about it in my blogs of how much Banx reminds me of Grandma, but this was one of the bigger reminders for me. I got all teary-eyed, and still do just thinking about it. As Grandma would have said, "That just tickles me!"
Another visual that just tickles me...

...Banx's love for her cousin, "Baby Beau Beau."

Banx is absolutely in love with this little guy (so much so, that she often worries me with her "rough love").
I think this picture clearly reflects Beau's worry as well. :-)
I wish Grandma could have met Mr. Beau. She would have been so proud of him and so proud of how good of a mommy Paige is! She would also have been so proud of all of her grandkids! Things have changed so much this past year: Paige is now a wife and mommy; Grant is engaged to a girl Grandma always loved; Caleb has a house of his own; Clint is farming with his dad; Cole is really enjoying college; Courtney has a great new job; and Conner continues to excel with his studies.
I think it's safe to say that Grandma had a hand in all of this and for the people we have become. I hope and pray that we continue to make her proud, as she watches over us all.

Ridin' Dirty

2011-12-26T17:31:00.000-06:00

A wife/mother tends to worry when she gets the picture above via text message with a message that reads as follows:
They see me rollin', They hatin',
Patrollin',
They tryin to catch me ridin dirty
(Lyrics from the song, "Ridin' Dirty," in case you couldn't tell.)
Before you turn us in to DHS for not putting our child in a car seat, apparently, this was a "WHAT IF?" scenario.
Austin sent that text message out to several people, which led to immediate phone calls to me from concerned family members. Seriously, people, like Austin would ever do anything to harm his best little buddy!
And speaking of his best little buddy, I hear that Austin was in Walmart recently pushing Banx and Danno in the shopping cart while singing the song from "Hangover," "Three Best Friends."
He loves his little girl, no doubt about it!!!

Thank You, Jennifer!

2011-12-23T11:04:00.000-06:00

My friend and fellow blogger, Jennifer, recently sent out an e-mail with some terrific websites to check out. One of those sites was www.betterlifebags.com

The blog designer of this site will send you the files (for free!) of these amazingly-designed prayer cards.

The particular prayer cards above are "prayers for your husband." She also has some pregnancy prayer cards that would make a great gift for a soon-to-be mommy.

For Christmas, I printed off these cards and made them into little books as gifts for a few people that I knew would appreciate them. They were a cheap gift, but they look so cute!

Thank you, Jennifer, for the inspiration!

It's Official...Santa is Scary!

2011-12-23T10:31:00.000-06:00

Here is our fourth and final attempt for a picture with Santa Clause...the REAL Santa Clause! Wink Wink.

Don't be fooled by this picture and think that Banx is handling the situation okay. It was a complete disaster, as far as she was concerned. Harlow, on the other hand, was in Santa Heaven!!

Note to self: Do not put Banx in shirts that say "I {heart} Santa." It is a clear lie!

An Old-Fashioned Late Afternoon Snack

2011-12-21T20:46:00.000-06:00

December 21, 2011

I've been feeling very guilty how busy I've been lately between working and trying to get ready for Christmas, so I thought I would make it up to Banx this evening with a special treat.

Austin was home sick, so I thought it would be best to let him rest (and avoid the germs!). I grabbed Banx's little push trike when I got home from work, picked her up and headed to the Osky square. I pushed her (and Danno, of course!) around the square looking in the pretty windows, and then I took her to Smokey Row for a good old-fashioned chocolate malt! Yummy!

I think she enjoyed sniffing the straw more than eating the malt. (If you look closely in the photo, you can see her sniffing the straw. I'm still hoping this sniffing thing is just a temporary infant/toddler phase.)

I can't speak for Banx, but I can assure you that it was one of the best times of my life, just sitting at a table giggling with my little girl while sharing a malt. (It was also quite entertaining to watch her greet every customer that walked by us.)

I will forever cherish and treasure that one hour of my life!

ICI Shopping Night

2011-12-20T19:04:00.000-06:00

December 19, 2011
One of our favorite holiday traditions...Charity Shopping Night for ICI. The gals all go shopping, while the guys make the chili and drinks and await "anxiously" to wrap the goods we bring back.

The experience of a charity like this is like most charities...very bittersweet. It is so sad to read the letters of these local families, so desperate to be able to provide their children with the most basic of needs as Christmas gifts (some of the wishes in the past have been for toilet paper, laundry detergent, paper towels, etc.). What we love about this tradition is to be part of the experience to help make someone's Christmas a little brighter during a tough, tough time. Even though the whole thing is anonymous (they don't know who we are, and we don't know who they are {we go through a local third-party organization here in town}), it is such a touching experience.

Banx already learned a lesson on the whole "giving thing" last night. One of the children we were buying for is a little girl around Banx's age, so the toys we picked out were extra inviting to Banx. She immediately found a baby doll, snatched it right up and went around to everyone in sight, signing "more, more," wanting them to open it for her. We tried as best as we could to explain that it wasn't hers. That's a *very* difficult concept for a one-year-old! Even though the baby was just $5 and it could have been so easy to give in and go buy another one, I don't want Banx to start out thinking she gets everything she wants. (But it's SOOO hard to tell that sweet little face "no" when she's looking up at you! And yes, Nana, we do actually tell her "NO!") We ended up hiding the baby while she was eating and distracted, but as soon as she got up, she began looking for that baby. She went around calling, "Baaby, Baaby." Here is a picture of her trying to get Miss Jody to find that baby. No such luck, Sweetheart, the baby "accidentally" got wrapped while you were eating! :-)

I recently read the following quote for Christmas that I L-O-V-E:

This is the time of giving and sharing.
It is the time of laughing and forgiving.
It is the time to feel the joy and happiness and of loving and being loved,

Just as our Lord loves us.
Amen.

Chiefs Weekend

2011-12-19T11:42:00.001-06:00

December 17-18, 2011
Austin and I went with Tim and Kim, as well as the Ficks, to KC for a weekend getaway.

We left Banx with Nana Jil for the night and tried to have a fun Mommy and Daddy night (which ended up being Mommy and Daddy going night-night at 8:45 p.m. and catching up on sleep...just a tad different than the old days in KC on a Saturday night! Haha).

As soon as we got to KC and checked into the hotel, we decided to hit one of our favorite shopping centers, Country Club Plaza. We just love the atmosphere there! Our first store we went to was Restoration Hardware while the guys hit one of Austin's favorite Irish pubs. While Kim and Bev were browsing around, I was checking out their cashmere scarves (more like molesting their cashmere scarves...those things were SOOOO soft!). All of a sudden, I looked up and saw someone who looked just like Austin's Aunt Susie. I thought to myself, Boy, that lady looks like Susie, but it can't be! (We hadn't seen Susie since their anniversary party in Wichita last summer. I knew she had lost a lot of weight, but I didn't think it would be almost beyond the point of recognition!) I took a chance it was her and said, "Susie?!" Sure enough, it was her! Boy, she looks great!!!! It turns out that she and her husband were in KC for the weekend, too, to do some Christmas shopping.

We halted our shopping expedition and met the guys at the pub for a drink, where we surprised them with Kevin and Susie. It really was an awesome coincidence!

(I joked with Susie that in this picture, she is showing some major Skinny B*^&% Attitude! Hehe.)

Luckily, Mom knew how much we would be missing Banx, if it only was for one night, so she was very generous with the pictures via text messaging. Thank goodness for technology! Mom and Dennis took Banx to Dennis's granddaughter's dance recital at the mall. Here is one of the pictures I received from Mom with the caption that read, "Nana, may I please have a qwatter?":

It sure didn't take her long to discover what the candy machines are all about!

We had a great relaxing Saturday night at the hotel, where we enjoyed a fabulous dinner, a few drinks and great conversation with friends and family.

After a great night's rest, we got all ready for the Chiefs-Packers game.

Being that we were still on "vacation," I decided to take full advantage of that and try a wasabi Bloody Mary at the game. Holy Moly, was that ever good!!! Can't wait to try and copy the recipe!

Here is a picture of one of my favorite parts of a Chiefs game, the A-10 Warthog fly-over at the end of the National Anthem:

We had two sections of seats to choose from. We tried them both out, but I thought I would post pictures of both sections and see which section you all think would be the better seats.
View 1:

or View 2:

Tough decision; right?!? :-)

It was a fabulous game, with a terrific outcome...Go Chiefs! They beat the undefeated Packers!!! Woo hoo!

It was a great weekend, but I was so glad to get home to my baby girl! Nothing beats getting to kiss that sweet little face good-night!

In Memory

2011-12-14T23:03:00.000-06:00

This week we had yet another funeral visitation. This one was for another great man that we knew, my Aunt Joi's father-in-law, Lyle. There have been so many great people who have passed on this year, that it got me thinking -- really thinking -- about life, priorities, and the true meaning of why we are here. Even though I'm still stumbling/struggling through the grieving process and find myself going one step forward, then two steps backward to the denial stage or the angry stage, I do find comfort at the thought of Grandma in Heaven with a gigantic beam of light surrounding her while feeling no pain at all. I also take comfort in the following (brace yourself; it may get weird for you while reading this): She comes to me in dreams (I know, it sounds crazy, but I pray to God each day/night that He keeps sending her to me in that manner. Besides, I have never once said I was not crazy! Haha. {I had to add a little humor in there, for Grandma's sake.}), and I love my latest visual of her when I awake in the morning and realize I had another conversation with Grandma in my sleep. (As some background, when Grandma was a teenager, she wanted a pair of red cowboy boots. Her mom wouldn't let her have them. Well, Grandma took some money she had been saving and secretly bought the cowboy boots, hid them in the barn and was able to wear them ONLY ONCE before her mom discovered the boots and confiscated them. She once shared this story with me when I asked her what the naughtiest thing was that she ever did growing up.) So my latest visual of Grandma while dreaming of her/talking to her is her dressed as an angel with those red cowboy boots. I love it! :-)

Sorry if that story creeps any of you out, but sharing these stories is my therapy (Send me a bill for the session! Wink wink), and quite frankly, anything to help me remember her I will graciously welcome...no matter how weird!

When we got home from the visitation for Lyle on Monday, I couldn't sleep. All I could think about is the great people who are no longer here that we once knew; Judge Rielly, Lyle, and last, but certainly not least, Grandma Peggy. I began re-reading some of the materials I have on bereavement, and I found this poem:

Life is but a Stopping Place
Life is but a stopping place,
A pause in what's to be,
A resting place along the road,
to sweet eternity.
We all have different journeys,
Different paths along the way,
We all were meant to learn some things,
but never meant to stay...
Our destination is a place,
Far greater than we know.
For some the journey's quicker,
For some the journey's slow.
And when the journey finally ends,
We'll claim a great reward,
And find an everlasting peace,
Together with the Lord
Author unknown

Man's/Toddler's Best Friend

2011-12-14T22:07:00.000-06:00

In addition to Danno the Monkey and Bryce at Miss Mary's, Banx has another best friend...Sofie. Sofie is my mother-in-law's house dog; however, she isn't the typical house dog...she's 140+ pounds and she stands eye to eye with Austin when she's on her back paws. Sofie is just an amazing creature. She serves all purposes; she will scare off and intimidate any intruder, if needed, yet she is the most gentle and precious creature when it comes to Banx. These two love each other! Here is a picture of Banx giving Sofie a treat. Sofie is extremely protective of Banx, which makes me love her even more! One night after taking a bath, I came out in my bathrobe with a towel on my head. Apparently, Sofie didn't recognize me. I went to pick up Banx from the floor, and Sofie freaked out on me. She quickly ran between Banx and me and wouldn't let me pick her up until I talked to Sofie and "showed" her my voice.

Watching these two play together is similar to watching the movie "King Kong" with the black large creature infatuated by the comparatively tiny blond.

It's safe to say Banx still loves her "pup pups," no matter what their size!

National Family Pajama Night

2011-12-14T21:51:00.000-06:00

So, I have a question: How long has Family Pajama Night been a "national" holiday? According to an article I read recently, National Family Pajama Night was November 19th. Well, since we were a little busy with Banx's birthday party that night, we decided to make our own Family Pajama Night. (We basically just picked a random night where we knew we would be home and knew no one would be stopping by to see us all in our jammies.) Our saying for the night was "It's PJ time," as we were paying homage to our -- well, mainly MY...I just drag Austin along to watch the train wreck -- admittedly guilty pleasure of "Jersey Shore" and the crew's famous line of, "It's T-shirt time!"

Yes, this is what our life has come to!

Christmas Cantata

2011-12-14T21:39:00.000-06:00

December 11, 2011

Sunday was the Christmas Cantata at church, and Austin had the role of Gabriel. As always, Tim DeJong did a great job putting everything together! Austin did a great job, too, and even managed to balance himself on the ladder just in time, as he almost fell in Eric Palmer's lap. As Austin said, he was just trying to spice things up for the church program. (No, nothing can be "normal" in this family!)

Banx decided to help Daddy with his lines before he had to hit the stage (and almost hit the floor, apparently).

Here is what a true angel looks like, according to Austin:

Whatever you say, Austin! :-)

A Day With Daddy

2011-12-10T22:19:00.001-06:00

December 10, 2011

I had to work on transcripts today (of all days, a marathon of "Pillars of the Earth," a series based on my second-favorite book, was on TV...SUCH a distraction!), so Austin had a "Daddy Day" with Bankers. Banx loves Walmart, so he included a trip to Walmart and picked up a few things for me. Here she is completely enjoying herself in the cart (and looking much like Grandma Peggy today, if I do say so!).

When they got home from being Mommy's Big Helpers with all the errands and after running by ICI to work a little, Daddy then decided to give Banx a bath.

He wanted to give her an *extra* special bath, so he filled the tub up, added bubbles, turned on the jets, turned on BabyTV on the television in the bathroom AND gave her Bink Bink. I believe they call that "Baby Heaven." That sounds pretty comparible to me being able to take a bath and being able to watch "Footloose" while sipping on a Vodka Tonic. Ahhh! One can dream!

Celebrate!

2011-12-10T22:07:00.000-06:00

December 9, 2011

Austin and I enjoyed some "Daddy and Mommy time" at a retirement party for the Mahaska County Clerk of Court, Mary. Banx enjoyed some "fun time" with her babysitters, Miss Paige and Garrett.

It was great to see everyone and catch up (including hearing about Sue's recent ghost-hunting adventures). Last night reminded me how much I miss certain people I used to work with.

We ended the night with a singing of "Red Solo Cup," complete with red Solo cups and all. (Yes, we had went through a few bottles of wine at that point.)

Enjoy retirement, Mary, and don't "drink" all your gifts at once. Haha.

Hurricane Banx Hit!

2011-12-10T16:07:00.000-06:00

This is the mess Banx managed to create while Mommy and Daddy were getting ready in the bathroom. Yep, that's toilet paper she discovered, amongst several other things.

What Happens When Daddy Bathes Banx

2011-12-05T19:43:00.000-06:00

This is Daddy's idea of how a girl should wash her hair. Luckily, Banx loves it...for now!

Before anyone criticizes us for how much water we put in the tub with Banx, I'll go ahead and tell you that if you don't fill 'er up (the tub, that is), you will most definitely hear about it from Miss B! Plus, one or both of us is always RIGHT there.

A Fabulous Weekend

2011-12-05T12:32:00.000-06:00

This weekend was one of those weekends that we want to copy over and over again. After SIS's Christmas breakfast on Saturday, Kim and I began working on decor for Grandma Shirley's door at Maple Ridge. Once I heard there was a door decorating contest, I was all in! (It was silimar to the peacock diaper, just not as bad. Haha.)

In between making the different objects for the door, we began decorating for Christmas. For those of you who have never experienced Christmas in the Blackwell residence, it seriously looks and feels like Santa's North Pole! I joked with Kim that it looked like Mahaska Drug and Von Maur threw up Christmas in the house. She reluctantly agreed. :-) I think it's safe to say that one of my mother-in-law's greatest passions is decorating for Christmas and everything that entails. I have to admit that despite all the work, it really is a convivial experience!

So we turned on the Christmas music, I made some hot apple cider, and we all pitched in and began the very detail-oriented task. Once Banx went night-night, Austin and I then brought out a family tradition on a cold night...Yahtzee!

Today was another great day. After church and lunch with Nana, Dennis, Joe, Paige and Beau, Austin took care of Banx while Kim and I went to assemble our door decorations at Grandma Shirley's. It went up much easier than I thought it would, and it was even more fun than I anticipated. The greatest part of the whole process was seeing Grandma Shirley's face when she first saw it. It was precious!

We ended up creating a snowman out of a Christmas tree skirt and some cardboard, grabbed some branches from the backyard, and made mittens out of felt for each of Shirley's family members. We also used Styrofoam balls (cut in half) as the snowballs.

Here is the smiley lady with her new door addition:

After decorating the door, Kim and I then met the rest of the crew at the Rielly household to watch some football. (Go Chiefs!!!)

We then came home and worked on Christmas some more.

Banx then received a visit from Grandpa Gene and Shari, where they got to experience her ornery side right before bedtime.

Banx is teething again, so the only bad part of the weekend was her being under the weather; however, that is one time when she is motionless long enough to cuddle. I hate that she's in pain, but I love that she lets me pretend I still have a little baby, as opposed to the toddler she is becoming.

So, as we are here on this somewhat chilly Monday, my wish is to create more holiday memories this season that will last a lifetime! I challenge you all to do the same.

Smiles, hugs, love and cheer,

Brook

A Year of Banx

2011-12-03T21:10:00.000-06:00

Admittedly, we totally copied this idea from a video we saw on "The Today Show" years ago. I just LOVED the idea! We started taking daily pictures of Banx the first morning we were home from the hospital and continued each day thereafter until her first birthday. I can't believe how much she changed in that one-year period! You will especially notice when she started becoming extremely mobile, which is why some of the photos are blurry. We had to snap fast or miss the shot entirely. :-) We were also lucky enough to capture our puppies and kitty in a shot here and there.

We hope you enjoy this!

SIS Christmas Gathering

2011-12-03T19:57:00.000-06:00

December 3, 2011

We had our monthly Sisters in Spirit (SIS) church group gathering this morning at my mom's house. She hosted the event and served a fabulous breakfast. We were able to collect a nice selection of toiletries for the Ecumenical Cupboard.

Here is Banx getting a "quick touch" of Nana's Christmas tree before we left. I'm surprised she didn't want to sniff it!

Walking, Signing, Falling, Crying

2011-12-02T19:10:00.000-06:00

December 2, 2011

For a six-second video, you will see all of the following:

-Banx walking

-Banx doing sign language (she's signing for more, her modified version)

-Banx falling hard

-Banx crying hard

Welcome to our everyday life! :-)

Santa Photo #3

2011-12-02T14:14:00.000-06:00

December 2, 2011

Santa, Mrs. Claus, some elf helpers and even reindeer made an appearance at Great-Grandma Shirley's nursing home today. Here is Banx with her Gigi and Santa. Banx did a little better when she saw Santa. No major meltdowns. A candy cane from Gigi quickly calmed her down.

Another Failed Session With Santa

2011-11-30T23:11:00.000-06:00

November 30, 2011
Well, we attempted to take another picture with Santa. And again, we failed. This time, we knew it wouldn't be $25/picture, as Santa was kind enough to make a visit at church tonight.

I should have known it wouldn't go well for pictures, when as soon as we got in the church basement, Banx had her shoes off, icing all over her face from the cinnamon rolls that Aunt PP thought Banx just had to have, and Banx had somehow managed to completely dishevel her hair.

Reason #2 I should have known the pictures wouldn't go according to plan: We were running behind schedule, which meant Banx was ready for bed, which meant Banx was getting a tad bit dramatic. I know, it's shocking to think she can be dramatic!

Reason #3: Our pictures with Santa were in the janitor's closet. (Basically that one was our fault. We were just wanting to get out of there and get home, but they didn't want the other kids to see Santa, so we had to sneak in and try to capture a few good shots before he made his grand entrance.) What on earth made us think we would get good shots of Banx with Santa with cleaning supplies as the backdrop?!? (Again, sorry, Banx! When you look back at these pictures as they are scrolling through at your high school graduation party, I hope you will have the heart to forgive us for all the many embarrassing moments! Just think...we are giving you lots of material for the second edition of "Awkward Family Photos.")

Banx was completely mortified when she saw Santa and had a major meltdown in the janitor's closet. Austin thinks her meltdown was due to the fact I actually had her in a janitor's closet. Yes, he most definitely contributes to the dramatic behavior, in case you haven't realized that by now. Haha. Thank goodness Beau was in there with her. She is very easily distracted when it comes to babies, so that helped her forget where she was and that there was a big man dressed in red with a beard standing next to her.
So, in other words, let's hope the third time really is the charm when it comes to a picture with Santa.

A Weekend in Omaha

2011-11-28T21:05:00.000-06:00

November 25-28, 2011

We decided to take advantage of the long holiday weekend and go to Omaha. Tim and Kim were already there celebrating Thanksgiving with Samantha, Terry and Harlow, plus some friends were in town, too, so we were able to have a mini vacation and spend time with friends and family. Austin also needed to do some work in the NE office, so we killed several birds with one stone.

Papa Tim took Banx swimming the morning before he and Kim left. She was not liking the cold water (she's spoiled by Nana's heated pool); however, she soon warmed up and had a blast.

Banx and Harlow had a great time together (including getting in trouble together in the shoe department at Von Maur), and then they had even more fun playing with Kasen while watching the football game in the lounge Sunday night.

We took Banx to a local mall in anticipation of getting her picture taken with Santa (a very important tradition in the Blackwell family!!!); however, our excitement was completely deflated when we learned that the price was $25 per picture! (Note to self: Do not go to the most fancy schmancy mall to get Santa pictures and expect them to be cheap. Go to the mall on the other side of the tracks!) After doing quick math while figuring how many pictures we would need of Banx alone, Harlow alone, Banx and Harlow together, this Dutch girl could not justify the price of those pictures! So, I did the next best thing, which my mother-in-law is NOT impressed with. (I promise we'll make it up to you, Kim!)

Yep, we put Banx in front with Santa and a strange family in the background! Banx was so excited, though, she just started waving. We are officially "that family."
When we quit taking pictures of her, she kept signing "more." Of course, she wouldn't let us get by taking a quick photo like this in front of a crowd of snooty women! Thanks, Banx! Haha.
Banx brought her latest obsession with her to Omaha...brushing her teeth. She loves to brush her teeth! I guess it could be worse than her screaming when you tell her it's time to stop brushing her teeth...couldn't it?

Thanksgiving 2011

2011-11-28T19:18:00.000-06:00

November 24, 2011
Thanksgiving this year was extremely bittersweet. It was our first Thanksgiving without Grandma Peggy. Even though it's been over seven months since she's passed, the "firsts" are extremely hard. Hospice warned us of this, but we are just now experiencing it with our first holiday season without that spunky, loving, caring, generous, thoughtful woman who loved, loved, LOVED the holidays and everything they entailed. She loved the food, the family gathering together, the card-playing after the meal, the laughter, the stories we would tell...she loved it all (and yes, even the beer for those German roots of hers).

It was very hard for me to fully enjoy how much fun Banx was at Thanksgiving this year, when all I could think about is that a year ago, Grandma had been taken to Methodist, via Life Flight, and hearing her voice over the phone Thanksgiving night say, "Everyone's there but me." Life was never the same after that for her...or for us. I think a part of all of us knew that it would most likely be her last Thanksgiving, but we are all stubborn in this family, and I'm sure I can safely say that none of us admitted it would be true.

We are trying hard to carry on our holiday traditions without her, but it's just not the same. It will never be the same. So what I am most thankful for this year is the Circle of Life. God knew how perfect his plan was when he gave us Banx before he took Grandma. We now have a whole new generation to pass on Grandma's traditions and, most importantly, her values.

In addition to that, I do have many other thanks.

I am thankful for the family and friends in my life.

I am so very thankful for my husband and daughter.

I am thankful for such generous in-laws who have welcomed us in their home.

I am thankful that we were able to sell our home so quickly in this economy, despite not quite being ready to move.

I am thankful for the jobs we have.

I am thankful for such a great church family who is always there for us.

I am thankful for traditions.

And I am extremely thankful for the health that God has blessed us with.

We hope your family had a happy and safe Thanksgiving this year, and know we are thankful for all of you in our lives!

Love,

Austin, Brook & Banx

A Night of Celebration

2011-11-28T18:43:00.000-06:00

November 23, 2011

In honor of what would have been Judge Rielly's 80th birthday, friends and family of the Rielly clan all got together for a little celebration. When you combine "the Rielly clan" and "a little celebration" in the same sentence, you know a good time was had! We even got to experience Pat's version of "Gansta's Paradise," along with Brandon and Morgan's version of "Love Shack." Yep, it was a great time!

Banx had her own great time with her babysitter for the night, Miss Paige!

Thanks again, Paige!

Thank you!

2011-11-23T09:19:00.000-06:00

Thank you so much to everyone!

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One-Year Stats

2011-11-22T13:02:00.000-06:00

November 21, 2011

Banx had her one-year checkup, and here are the stats:

Height: 30 1/2 inches (90th percentile)

Weight: 25 lbs. 8 oz (97th percentile)

She also got four shots and blood drawn. Poor baby girl. She did great, though! I had cookies ready to reward her (more like distract her from the pain).

A Birthday to Remember (Mainly for Mommy to Remember)

2011-11-21T20:50:00.001-06:00

We celebrated Banx's birthday on Saturday with family and friends. We had an owl theme (Look Whooo's Turning One!), complete with homemade decorations I had spent the past few months working on. I loved every minute of it! For those of you who know me well, I love planning parties and decorating for them!

Austin was in charge of the entertainment, so he convinced his sister and her friend, Jackie, that they should dress up as clowns to do balloon animals and face painting. I'm not sure how he convinced them, but they did it! Actually, I have a feeling that he'll be repaying the favor soon for Harlow's birthday party. Her theme is "princesses," so my gut instinct tells me Austin will be dressing up in something that involves a tutu.

The morning before her party, Banx fell into the sunroom doors and bruised up her face. Yep, she's got the grace of her daddy AND her mommy! Poor girl doesn't have a chance.

We had a great turnout for the party, and I think I can safely say a good time was had by all.
Here are a few pictures from Banx's first big bash:

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Happy First Birthday, Banx!

2011-11-20T18:22:00.001-06:00

November 20, 2011

I can't believe it...today Banx turned ONE! *Tear* This year has flown by so fast. It really does just seem like yesterday that she was born. We have truly been blessed with this little warm, giggly, funny and -- yes, even sometimes dramatic -- little girl. We had a great time celebrating her birthday party last night (more details to come later), and we had a wonderful day with her today. Here she is above before we headed off to church, right after she opened a few more gifts. Because, of course, she needed more (according to a few people!). As Banx would say, friends and family were "bad, bad" with spoiling her this year with gifts! More importantly, though, she was greatly remembered by so many people this weekend while we celebrated her first year of life.

I found this poem online and thought it fit perfectly with how I would summarize our first year with her:

From the first time I held her,

Heard her first cry,
Love had a face,
And she looked into mine.
Now a year has passed,
How time does fly.
A year full of firsts,

Special child of mine.

First giggles,
First tumbles,
First teeth,
First smile.
Every second worth all the while.
And at the end of this year
filled with firsts and fun,

We had a great time celebrating,

As Banx turned One!

We love you so much more than words could ever say, Bankers! We are wishing and praying that we have 100 more years to celebrate with you!

All our love,

Daddy and Mommy

* * * * * * * * * *

She is loving her new "grow with me" trike! She's been signing "more, more" to keep going on it all afternoon/evening since her Papa put it together for her!

Again, Happy Birthday, Sweetheart!

XOXOXOXO!

Shopped 'Til She Dropped

2011-11-17T18:07:00.000-06:00

A "quick" shopping trip in Des Moines to pick up some supplies left Banx (and me!) completely exhausted. Thank goodness Miss Susan had just given her an early birthday present, this beautiful handmade cuddly blanket. It came in very handy for Banx to get some shut-eye. It also matches her carseat cover for her big-girl seat perfectly!

Thank you, Miss Susan! She's loving it!

Arizona Gift Time

2011-11-15T20:25:00.000-06:00

November 15, 2011
Gigi and Papa got home late last night from Scottsdale, which means they came bearing gifts. This time, their dogs got spoiled, too! (Only, I'm not too sure Toto and Sofie truly appreciate their gifts.) Here is what happens when Kim finds the pet section at an Arizona craft show:

Beau-Beau

2011-11-15T20:13:00.000-06:00

November 14, 2011
Aunt PP and Beau-Beau (as Banx calls him) stopped by for a visit yesterday. Thankfully this one picture turned out somewhat good, because right after this, Banx shoved him off of her. (Good catch, Aunt PP!) Of course, Austin pointed out that it looks like she's trying to give him the ole' "fish hook." She's not exactly the most delicate little girl, but that's exactly what her daddy loves about her (well, one of many things).

First Steps

2011-11-14T18:42:00.000-06:00

November 14, 2011

Banx has been taking a few steps here and there, but she has really started getting serious with this walking business in the last week, especially the last two days. When we came home yesterday from our weekend away, all of a sudden she just took off. Literally, she was running across the room. We had been joking that once she started walking, she would just run. Be careful what you say!

I finally was quick enough to capture a video of her taking more than a few steps; however, it's one of her shorter "walkabouts." It's not near the amount of steps she has proved capable of doing, but you'll get the idea with this. Hopefully I'm quick enough with the camera to catch more. She's just a tad stubborn when she wants to be (I think she gets that from her dad...haha), so it's not the easiest task to get her to walk when she's just not in the mood. I've been told little girls just do things on their own terms. I'm beginning to get a taste of that.

Wasserbahn Waterpark

2011-11-14T12:46:00.000-06:00

We had a great time at the Wasserbahn Waterpark to end our 2011 Amana Colonies adventure. The guys and babies met up with us there after we literally shopped until we dropped. We learned that Joe and Austin ate lunch with the babies in a lounge (NOT a bar...apparently, there IS a difference) while they watched the Iowa game and Banx entertained everyone. After an entertaining dinner, the women (plus Joe and Austin) hit the waterpark while the rest of 'em hit the business center of the hotel for a game of Pitch...which then turned into several games of Pitch. Joe and Austin just couldn't resist that fun.

It was great to get away for some fun and shopping. I'm totally exhausted, but it was worth all the fun (and all the great deals I found!).

Amana Colonies '11

2011-11-13T21:17:00.000-06:00

November 12, 2011

Grandma Peggy loved going to the Amana Colonies for the food, shopping and the -- well, mainly the food. For those of you who knew my grandma, you know how much she loved to go out to eat.

In honor of Grandma, we decided to go there to celebrate Mom's birthday. We had some good luck shopping, but most of all, we had a great lunch at one of Grandma's favorite restaurants! She would have been so proud of us! However, she would have been the most proud of JuJu for trying out the German beer sampler! Again, for those of you who knew my grandma and her German roots, you know how much she loved her beer!

This was my first real "hard-core" shopping trip since having Banx, and I quickly realized that I just can't power shop like I used to! I had all these coupons I was so excited to get to use, but I ran out of fuel very fast! It could be due to that almost-one-year-old I'm busy chasing. ;-)

"I Wonder What That Smells Like?"

2011-11-13T20:56:00.000-06:00

Banx found some hardware to a door and quickly crawled to the steps with it so she could relax and totally enjoy doing what she loves doing...sniffing things. Hopefully this habit ends before she goes to preschool. She started sniffing the kids in the nursery last week at church. Thankfully, they didn't seem to mind!

Oh, How Our World Was Changed!

2011-11-10T21:45:00.001-06:00

I have been intentionally waiting to post the following footage. We wanted to wait until Banx was close to one year old before we shared this. Well, that time has officially come. We just like to keep you all on your toes!
As some background, this video clip is actually two clips made into one. The beginning is how we announced I was pregnant on my 30th birthday. What an awesome gift! The last part is how Austin announced to the family Banx's stats, including the most important details, which were 1) she was healthy; and 2) she was a GIRL!

As I was making this video with Austin, I just started tearing up. I can't believe how quickly it's gone! It just seems like yesterday I was in the Walmart bathroom when I found out I was pregnant. Wow, such a classy story that was! Sorry, Banx. That was just the beginning of several embarrassing moments, I'm sure, that are in store for you!

Hope you all enjoy this!

Smiles and Hugs,

Austin and Brook

Tight Fit

2011-11-09T18:07:00.000-06:00

November 9, 2011

Today we went out for lunch with Mom, Paige and Beau for Mom's birthday. Mom thought Banx would/could sit in Beau's car seat while we finished eating. Um, it just didn't quite fit her right. But this is the same size of car seat that is recommended to hold your baby until he/she is one. Oh, okay. We had to get Banx the next stage of car seat already a few months ago. We just still have it in the rear-facing position. Those Stage 1 car seats are definitely not meant to hold a Blackwell baby until the age of one!

Happy birthday, Nana!

Back to Reading

2011-11-07T21:40:00.000-06:00

With the chaos of the last several months, I haven't had the time for one of my favorite hobbies, reading. Actually, come to think of it, I really haven't read -- or at least, read like I used to -- since I started freelancing. I guess when I have to read into the wee hours of the morning for a job, reading for a hobby gets put on the backburner. But seriously, I love to read, particularly books relating to history (fiction and non-fiction, both) and/or places Austin and I have visited. I was looking for the book, "Fortune's Children" in our local library; however, they didn't have it, which sent me on a hunt on Amazon. I found the book used for 99 cents, which is perfect, considering I *love* the smell of old books...yep, I realize that is not normal. (Perhaps I've been pointing the finger to the wrong source of Banx's sniffing addition. Sorry, Austin!)

Anyway, after Austin and I visited the Biltmore in Ashville in 2009 for our second anniversary, I have been intrigued with the history of the Biltmore itself, as well as with the Vanderbilt family and their own personal history.

This book is quite good! (Judge Stewart--add this to the book list I sent you!)

I would highly recommend this book, as well as a visit to the Biltmore if you ever get the chance! I am itching to return there again. Out of all the places Austin and I have visited, this is my favorite so far (except maybe Maui for our wedding, but that's pretty tough to beat).

Oh, Those Blue Eyes

2011-11-07T21:19:00.000-06:00

I was playing around with the camera from some of last week's photos, and I tried the photo sketch option. I love how it captured Banx's blue eyes (as well as the Baby Magic bottle in her mouth and her Matt Cassel jersey)!

A Picture Perfect Day

2011-11-07T13:11:00.000-06:00

I was working on Banx's photo invitations last week for her birthday party, and it was the perfect weather outside. Days like that are why I love fall!

I Will!

2011-11-04T18:44:00.000-05:00

November 4, 2011
Banx was welcomed home today with a surprise...a flower basket that was delivered with a card from Grant and Alexa that read, "Will you be our flower girl?" Of course she said, "Yes!" :-)

Being that she loves to sniff things, she was very anxious to check out the scent of these daisies. She loves them!

Thank you very much, Grant and Alexa, for the very sweet and thoughtful gesture!

Where Does She Get it From?

2011-11-02T08:39:00.000-05:00

The most consistent word that people use to describe Banx is "ham" (not referring to her size, by the way). She is always performing some sort of hilarious show to entertain us. Her latest "thing" is an obsession with a travel-size Baby Magic bottle. She puts this little bottle in her mouth and crawls as fast as she can while doing her ornery giggle. Here she is last night pretending to be an owl, in preparation for her upcoming owl-themed birthday party. Her daddy was chasing her as she was crawling with this bottle, and he quickly picked her up to make her "fly." Apparently, she was pretending the bottle was a field mouse that she had just captured. (Isn't that what owls eat??)

When she starts walking, we are all in trouble! I have a feeling she'll just go straight to running. Speaking of walking, Banx is up to taking two steps, but then she falls down and does this donkey kick thing while laughing. I could sit and be entertained by her all day! Do you see now why I get no work done from home?! :-)

Beggars Night '11

2011-10-31T20:10:00.000-05:00

October 31, 2011

Tonight we made the rounds for trick-or-treating. Austin had to work, which meant I had to take Banx around solo. Walking around with an 11-month-old from house to house and then having to strap her in a car seat, drive to the next neighborhood, unstrap her, get her dressed back up each time, etc., while carrying the candy bucket and camera is very exhausting! (Is it bedtime yet?!) We only went to family members' homes and a few close friends. We didn't hit all the places I would have liked, but I was running out of steam. So sorry if we didn't make it to your home!
Banx got some great Halloween gifts from family members (thank you for thinking of something OTHER than candy!), and she was officially wore out by the time we got home (me, too!).

Happy Halloween, everyone!

Lookin' Good, Aunt PP-Style

2011-10-31T19:57:00.000-05:00

Here is Banx playing dress-up already at Aunt PP's. Good thing she has a very fashionable aunt to take after!

Costume Day

2011-10-28T08:11:00.000-05:00

October 28, 2011

I just love a reason to get Banx all decked out! This morning she went to Miss Mary's so I could go to work later on, so I thought this was the perfect day to don her witch outfit and show Miss Mary. Miss Mary's reaction was the following: "You're a dork." Yep, that's why we love Miss Mary! :-)

And The Holidays Are Officially Beginning

2011-10-27T20:29:00.000-05:00

October 27, 2011

Well, since Halloween usually is the start of the fall/winter holiday season, I guess we are there already!

We got a headstart on Halloween at Grandma Shirley's and benefited early from the treats tonight at Maple Ridge's Trick-or-Treat Night.

In case you can't tell, Banx is a pink poodle. :-) We kept saying, "Call the pound, 'cuz there's a puppy on the loose," at which time she did her raspy giggle. Surprisingly, she didn't bother her costume at all. My mother-in-law says that's due to all her "head gear" that she's always been used to wearing.

Looking forward to making our rounds with our pink poodle on Monday night for Beggar's Night!

"Um, Can Somebody Pa-lease Get Me Out of Here?!"

2011-10-25T21:27:00.000-05:00

Here is what we have resorted to for Banx...

Yes, it's the baby form of a jail cell; however, we prefer to call it a fortress. Daddy was WAY against this contraption when I first brought it up, considering it has become very challenging to keep tabs of Banx in our new household. (And no, Austin, we are not putting the cat/dog bells around her neck to make it easier to find her!) It's pretty funny, though, that the first day Austin had to watch Banx by himself here, it was that same night that he suggested we buy one of those "cool-looking baby pens for Banx to play in." Hmmmm, yes, that would be the same "cool-looking baby pen" that was earlier referred to by him as a baby jail. Banx is *kind of* getting used to this play fortress. Whenever she's in the room by herself playing and you peek around the corner, you will see her having a great time; however, the moment she notices someone is nearby, you would swear she was severely injured. She quickly stands on the panels and shakes them as if to say, "Um, are ya gonna come get me anytime soon?!" Here is the stance I am trying to describe:

"So, This is PJ, Huh?"

2011-10-24T16:58:00.000-05:00

Since Banx wasn't allowed back in Paige's room at the hospital, Banx was able to officially meet PJ (n/k/a "Beau") for the first time today. She looked at him like, "What's all the fuss about?!" All she cared about was Aunt PP's pup pups. Alrighty, then. I don't think she was impressed with how much he wanted to sleep. I have a feeling she'll be way more interested with him in a few months. She likes to play rough, and she's used to playing hard with Harlow, so we'll need to keep a very close eye on Banx when she's around Beau!

Lookin' good with two of them on your lap, Nana!

Almost Five

2011-10-23T20:52:00.000-05:00

October 23, 2011
Well, we almost successfully accomplished all five of our Sunday traditions. The key word there is "successfully." My crock pot dinner that I was so excited for turned out to be a flop. Note: When you are adding whole cloves to meat and the lid falls off and you accidentally drop in a majority of the cloves, don't ever assume you got most of them out...or enough out that you think it won't severely alter the flavor!!! I have to admit that this was my first food I have prepared in our six years together that I ended up throwing away. Yep, it was that bad! My father-in-law, bless his heart, thought he would still eat it, even though I went ahead and made something else. Such a brave man!

Our Sunday still turned out to be a fabulous day!

Aunt Joi came to town, and we took Banx to the cemetery to visit Grandma Peggy's grave and feed the ducks and fish. However, the tables were turned on that visit, and the ducks ended up feeding off of Joi. One of them left quite the mark on Joi's leg!

Banx had an absolute blast feeding the ~~pup pups~~ ducks. Banx is going through a state of confusion with animals. She definitely knows what a kitty is and what a puppy is; however, all other animals seem to be "pup pups" as well. I think it must be due to the fact we have dogs of all sizes in this household!

Following our visit to the cemetery, Banx was visited by her Grandpa Gene and Shari, where she received an adorable outfit and shoes, which, of course, she had to sniff. (Banx is going through this strange stage...she sniffs EVERYTHING! She gets that from her dad! While we were at lunch today, a lady from church came up behind Banx's high chair to talk to us, and Banx leaned back and sniffed her jacket. So embarrassing!)

Banx was lucky enough today to see all sets of grandparents. Now, that's a good day for her!

Sunday Traditions

2011-10-23T14:17:00.000-05:00

October 23, 2011

We have a few Sunday traditions that we work hard to remember, celebrate and keep sacred. With the chaos of our lives the past few months, we, unfortunately and sadly, let ourselves get distracted; however, we are working hard to get back to our Sunday traditions, which include:

1. Worship the Lord in church
2. Spend time with extended family at lunch

3. Visit Grandma Shirley at Maple Ridge
4. Spend time as a family in the afternoon

5. Enjoy a big Sunday dinner over food and conversation

So far today, we have already accomplished 1-4, and I have dinner in the crock pot for tonight, so, hopefully, we get to accomplish all five today. (I was going to wait and blog tomorrow; however, I looked over and realized Austin was napping, along with Banx. Perfect time to detail our family memories!)

Here are some photos of our time with Grandma Shirley today. We were able to capture a great picture of Grandma, Austin and Banx.
I was then able to capture a picture of Banx destroying my organized diaper bag. She knows that going through bags, purses, etc., is "baad, baad" (as she says), but, apparently, she didn't think I was watching her.
I scared her when I yelled her name and told her "NO!" She quickly crawled away, turned around and gave the following pose, as if to say, "What? It wasn't me!"

We were reminded by our good friend, Tom Rielly, last weekend at a wedding how truly special Sundays are, not only from the religious aspect, but also from the family aspect. Sundays truly are sacred, and, as Tom said in his toast to the couple and in his prayer, Sundays are what keep families together and close. AMEN!

Carroll's Pumpkin Farm '11

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October 22, 2011

Austin, Banx and I took a trip to Carroll's Pumpkin Farm in Grinnell today, followed by a visit to Pella to see Beau.

While we were in Grinnell, we took a little detour through town to see Judge Stewart and Gail. It was so nice to see them both!

Banx loved the pumpkin farm. She loved the goats (a/k/a "Pup pups"), and she was in Heaven when she realized there were baby kitties (a/k/a "Titties").

The weather was absolutely perfect for our visit, and we were even able to take some time and have a little picnic at their outdoor picnic tables.

These are the Saturdays that make fall my favorite time of year!

Meet Our Nephew!

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October 21, 2011
4:26 p.m.
Beau Paxton Pierson
8 lbs. 2 oz. 21 1/2 in.

After a very long labor (*very* similar to my labor with Banx; however, Paige was able to have the baby naturally), Baby Beau Paxton joined our family yesterday at around 4:26 p.m. Paige was amazing! She had been in an induced labor about 21 hours, when, all of a sudden, things started moving quickly...extremely quickly! It only took Paige eight minutes of pushing. I am SO proud of her!!

I already love this little guy more than words can say. He is such a cute little booger! He has lots of dark curly hair. Personally, I think he looks just like his Uncle Josh. He has the most perfect little features.

Austin and I feel truly blessed. We have a daughter who is the apple of our eye; we have a beautiful niece, Harlow; and now we have a handsome nephew, Beau. The holidays are going to be loads of fun this year with all the babies!

***Please check out Paige's blog, which you can find under my blog list on the right side, to see a video of Mr. Beau***

On the way home from the hospital, I was explaining to Banx (I'm not sure how much she was listening) that she has a new baby cousin named "Beau." A minute later I heard her in the back going, "Beau Beau." :-)

It's going to be so much fun having a little boy around! I'm so used to little girls, this might take some getting used to. Since I would have bet everything I own that I was having a boy when I was pregnant with Banx, I was always looking up quotes and poems about boys. This quote was one of my favorites, so, Paige, this is for you, Mama:
"What are little boys made of? Frogs and snails and puppy dog tails. That's what little boys are made of."
Enjoy each minute with him, Joe and Paige. This year will go by faster than you ever dreamed it could.

We love you guys!

XOXO

Austin, Brook and Banx

P.S. When I was having my little "talk" with Beau when I first saw him, he was telling me that he had a special poem for you that he found, Joe and Paige. Here is what he wanted me to share with you:

"For New Parents"

Before I could be me,

The Lord said, "I must see,

Your precious soul is guided by someone handpicked by Thee.

You are my little lamb, pure and innocent.
I will find the perfect pair

before you're Heaven-sent."

He pondered over His long, long list,

smiled and said,

"I know who is full of love and tenderness

waiting just for you."

He took me in the strength

of His gentle hand,

and laid me in the loving arms

of that special woman and man.

When I opened up my eyes

I was so very glad,

to see the Lord had chosen

YOU

to be my Mom and Dad!

Twins?

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Yep, I sure did...I even dressed Harlow and Banx alike in their jammies while Harlow was here. I couldn't resist!

They look so much alike, it's hard to tell which is which; right? Haha. ;-)

"There's a Spot Right Here Next to Me, PJ!"

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October 20, 2011
First off, Happy 11-month birthday, Banx! I can't believe in one month you will already be one year old. Sigh. Tear. Sigh.

Today Banx and I went out to my mom's to spend some time with Paige and her friend/my cousin Clint's girlfriend, Rachel, before Paige went back for her checkup with the doctor. Turns out, they are keeping her overnight and have started the induction process for labor. It sounds like, no matter what, Baby PJ will be here no later than tomorrow afternoon. YEAH!

Banx is very excited for her new cousin. There's a spot just waiting for you to sit next to Banx out at Nana's, PJ, so get here soon!
Please pray for a safe delivery for Paige and Baby PJ.

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I had to include a pink ribbon in a picture this month in honor of Breast Cancer Awareness Month. I figured since Banx was wearing pink, this would be the perfect picture for that.

Breast cancer was the initial cause of Grandma's illness, so this disease and this month hits close to home.

While you are saying a prayer for my sister and Baby PJ, please continue to pray for those affected by breast cancer, their families, their caregivers, but most of all...FOR A CURE!